Girlfriend is being irrational what do I do..?

You've been over this before. You always apologise. When she's with her friends, are they sometimes male? If so, I've been in the same situation. She wants things her way, how you feel is completely unimportant. If you can, I'd suggest you move on. OR, if you don't want to do that, let HER call YOU. No one should be "in charge" in a relationship, but it sounds as if she is in control...complete control.