Ladies, serious marriage question for you?

Dear lady, where there's smoke, there's fire!!! I have had my husband(s) do exactly the same things, telling me they were playing games etc, when both were starting on-line affairs that turned into the real thing. Now, one has married the woman he met and my second husband of only 18 mos. is dating at least one of the 3 I found out about. Ironically, I found out about #2's affairs from a message from 'her' exhusband, sent to me on Facebook on Valentine's Day. I'm afraid that your hubby is either viewing porn, "shopping" for a new girl, or both.